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Meg Salter's avatar

Speaking here from the experience of multiple decades of meditation practice, working with Cynthia Bourgeault's concepts and various integrally informed developmental models. both personally, in business and in my coaching practice.

For me, the key here is the notion of Reconciling. What it takes to initially recognize apparent opposites, then hold the paradox in tension without collapsing to either pole. Typically the pattern is first to not even recognize you're holding to one side (that's just the way it is), to then noticing the opposing force but demonizing it, to then holding the two in some kind of (creative) tension. This is tremendously difficult. The act and intention of "just being" in the eye of the storm calls out latent capacities, evokes something deeper/ broader from within or beyond us. Possibly catalyzes an evolutionary/ developmental process, which is now a required response to challenge.

This ability to bear the tension can be supported by State practices (prayer, meditation, ++) and also by recognition that one may be growing up to some broader stage unfolding.

Long story short—I have found Law of Three a profoundly pragmatic support.

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John Keith Hart's avatar

Great, Jonathan!

When the Latins were a disorganized rabble overshadowed by Etruscan civilization, they sacrificed a cow, divided themselves into three groups and shared the meat in a ritual. Division is combined as a unity. If anyone was attacked, the rest would fight under their temporary leadership.

They called being a member of this community socius and the whole thing societas; this is usually translated as an alliance. The equal groups was called tribus (tribe = a third) and the ritual was distribution (sharing among egalitarian tribes). But socius comes from the o-grade form of the Indo-European root sekw- (as in second, sequel and sign) meaning to follow.

This was a network society, and we now find ourselves as temporary followers of leaders like you on this occasion. The big names on the internet now encourage us to join their tribe or make one of our own. It was only in medieval France that society became a centralized territorial state, like the failed nation-states we live in now, undermined by the digital revolution and lawless money flows.

PS. The icon for three in Chinese also means many.

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